This is disgusting. If you find no value in communicating or spending actual time with this woman, then do not date her. You are obviously using her for sex, so why even engage in a committed relationship? If someone gets alcohol poisoning, despite the route, it should occur to you as a human that another human being is in need of your help. If this is an ongoing problem, help her seek alcohol counseling. Your actions are equally on trial here--you choose to spend time with someone you seem to hate, which only proves the existence of your own great insecurities. Women are more than just sex toys. This isn't funny, or interesting, it is just another example of how men are allowed to treat women in relationships. And why do women stick around? Because they are trained to think that this kind of degradation and disrespect is normal. Please take a moment and evaluate your selfish behavior--what would it feel like if you were in her position?

That's pretty much all I have to say. I hope that this Cornell student (something I can't believe) has the tables turned on him because he's got a problem.

THIS IS DISGUSTING AND OFFENSIVE HOW COULD YOU PRINT THIS

It's amazing how none of these commenters respect women as true equals. Women have ability to make their own choices and do as they please. This girl is not a mistreated pet; she is rational human being who clearly feels that she is getting something out of this relationship (no matter what some know-it-all who reads a page-long diary entry thinks). Further, why should the Cornell Sun censor itself and not provide interesting incite into the lives of real Cornell students? It is clear that this diary entry has proved interesting enough to be read and commented on by the readership.

Let me first address this last comment. True equals do not get remotes thrown at them. A true equal with the the ability to do as she pleased would certainly retaliate. Wouldn't you? You cannot equate freedom of choice with freedom. One is a tiny little subset of the other.

Now, let me address the Cornell Daily Sun, to all of the editors who didn't stand in the way of this publication. You are a small group with an unwieldy amount of power. That you continue to publish trash and to cater to the interests of none of your readership is a disgrace. It is not in the interest of myself and my peers to be represented in print as chauvinist, unsophisticated, middle class trash, and to the degree that we may even be so is the degree to which I am filled with shame.

The University does not interfere in your publication in accordance with the justice obtained by the freedom of the press. I say you are not the press. I say you are a few unimaginative and holding a title I would much rather see held by somebody else. Speak not of censorship, I would have something different in mind, and it is called reform.

this is really disgusting. i hope the sun is more responsible in the future with printing articles that glorify disgusting guys like

Jeeze... These two both sound like pieces of work. The perception this guys has of a woman essentially being a mindless sex toy that occasionally squawks for food/medical attention... Well, that's just priceless. *shudder*

I'm sick of people like this guy and his dippy idiot girlfriend.

the guy's a senior...he's in ILR..what did you expect?

I'm a girl...lighten up people. it was funny. geezzz not every woman is a victim of male oppression...so you choose to wait for your boyfriend naked? you choose to get absolutely plastered and vomit all over (i probably wouldnt let the person sleep in my bed either). so she chooses to give a blowjob in appreciation of a latte? whatever, if thats how you show appreciation, i know few guys who would complain. emphasis on the choosing.