Opinion

A Tradition of Dissent

February 10, 2009 - 12:00am
By Ariela Rutkin-Becker

It’s been two weeks since The Column That Launched a Thousand Ships. And I want to preface this one by saying that it is no apology, but rather an addendum.

The chaos that my column spurred, while not completely unexpected, certainly reflects a reality: It hit a sore, sore spot for many. I originally wrote it because there had not been anything in The Sun about the Israel/Gaza situation. I felt that strong feelings must be festering on all fronts that would doubtlessly explode soon. Indeed, I learned that I was not the only one whose “fire had been ignited” over break — people from all political persuasions, from all religions, took my column and used it to explode all over the place.

There is really only one specific part of “The Wrong to Remain Silent” that I want to clarify. It is the line that reads, “American Jews: this is to you, to those who concern themselves more with laws of kashrut — with proper ways of killing animals, partially so that they feel the least amount of pain — than with laws that deal with our own humankind.”

First of all, here, I did not mean to stereotype all American Jews as observers kashrut — or that there is anything wrong with practicing it. Quite the opposite. I was raised in a kosher home, and was always taught that observing kashrut was a way of inserting a daily godliness into our lives. In fact, with Conservative Judaism’s ambitious introduction of hekhsher tzedek, kashrut has become more tied to ethics and social justice than ever before.

If only we could observe a similar godliness in our everyday interactions with all people.

The rest, well, I think the rest of the column is self-explanatory. In response, I don’t feel the need to go off on huge tangents as many of my readers did, leaving me with theses that spanned twice the length of my original column.

The column was not about Hamas — and because it wasn’t about Hamas, I became a Hamas sympathizer. The column wasn’t about the failure of the international community to do enough about the rockets being fired into Israel — and because of that, I was labeled ignorant. The column wasn’t about “Israel being the only democracy in the Middle East” or any other statements that readers posted, which seemed to have come directly from an Israeli government press release.

The day after my column was published, I attended Newark Mayor Cory Booker’s talk at The State Theatre. Words cannot describe what I felt as Mr. Booker, a black former-football player, breathlessly described his journey into the soul of spiritual Judaism. This journey, figuratively accompanied by leaders such as Maimonides, led him to become the head of Oxford’s L’Chaim Society when he was studying there as a Rhodes Scholar. I reflected on the Hillel quote that has had an enormous influence over me: “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am only for myself, what am I? And if not now, when?”

The past few days, I have received what seemed like countless comments from people in my own Jewish mishpacha who were quick to shun me and de-legitimize my Judaism. One writer who chose to remain anonymous, for example, tastefully informed me how I shame God, my ancestors, defile myself daily and should take a bath. And there, sitting in the State Street auditorium, I felt disappointed that so many members of this extended family didn’t seem to get it. Yet, I also felt the profound spiritual interconnectedness that Cory Booker seemed to get.

Because the unfortunate truth remains: The reactions to my article only served to corroborate the point that anything critical of Israel gets pounced on in this campus and in most of this country. Or sometimes anything critical gets physically ripped out of the ground, like the IAJ signs with quotes from Amnesty International and the U.N. in the Arts Quad yesterday. Talk about erasure of facts.

I am quite sure no human enjoys being put in the position of martyrdom to one “side” and treachery to another. Therefore, I encourage all the people who wrote in criticisms to talk to those who wrote in praise. But please, let’s avoid the low blows and assumptions about one’s personal spiritual practices.

One writer wrote that she pities me, for I lack pride in American Jewry. She could not be more wrong. My Judaism — a tradition of dissent, of deconstructing, of social justice — informs my decisions. And as an American Jew, the obligation to speak up when actions are taken under the guise of protecting my religious freedom is exactly my pride.


Related Topics: american jewry, gaza, hamas, israel, jewish, jewry

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"The reactions to my article

"The reactions to my article only served to corroborate the point that anything critical of Israel gets pounced on in this campus and in most of this country."

Obviously when you write a column filled with as many false allegations and lies as the column you wrote is going to get pounced on. Are you looking for sympathy here? You clearly didn't know what you were talking about and people had to correct you. It's as simple as that. The great thing is, you can say something critical of Israel/Jews without getting a fatwa calling for your death.

This is a common tactic I've

This is a common tactic I've seen when a Sun columnist writes a factually inaccurate and logically suspect column. They point to the personal attacks they receive as evidence that they were right, yet ignore the mountains of legitimate criticism of their arguments. There were at least four letters to the editor, 4 or 5 comments posted on the online version of your column, and several opinion columns that all tore apart the substance of your arguments. Yet you choose to ignore this and paint yourself as some kind of noble warrior, fighting against the ignorant masses.

What were you expecting?

I really don't understand the point of this article. Is it merely to clear up a single sentence in your previous opinion piece? Seems like you're really just complaining that readers got mad at you called you mean things.

Your original article was really just about you, not the Israel/Gaza situation. In the first paragraph you explain the premise of the article: you got a letter that said that "a donation was made in my name to a village helping to relocate Israeli youth 'away from the stress of the situation.'” You go to explain that the donation is "a unilateral cause which I never would have personally supported, [which] re-ignited a fire of anger that persisted throughout all of winter break." Then you talk about your problems with the letter and make it your alternative unilateral cause to object to every single pro-Israel position. OK. It's your article. Your opinion. Write whatever you want.

Now people are criticizing not only your politics, but you yourself. What did you expect? If you are going to write a blog entry about your feelings and opinions, expect yourself get criticized. Personally. If you don't want people to criticize you, then don't bring your life-story into the picture.

That's all aside from the general problem that your original article was littered with vast generalizations about people who hold different beliefs than you do, as well as factual inaccuracies in general. Is it really surprising to you that many of those people took your rhetorical questions and accusatory statements as a personal attack on them, not just an attack on their views.

So now you've written a so-called "addendum." Again, its about you. Again, its loaded with generalizations about people who disagree with you. If you are going to brag about being a Hammas sympathizer, as you now claim, you just might get criticized for your position. Kind of like how you more or less criticized your readers who have chosen to side with Israel's position.

Maybe you should write about another topic next week. Something other than yourself. Just a suggestion.

It's pretty appalling that

It's pretty appalling that she claims the reason she wrote that horrifying article is because there wasn't anything else in the Sun about the situation in Israel. It's both appalling that she obviously doesn't read the Sun, and that the editors there would allow that article to be published. She, and they, should be ashamed.

You people obviously don't

You people obviously don't get it. Nowhere did the columnist say that she was right, only that she was not apologetic. If you had read the original column, you would see that this all started from a personal experience between her and her Temple, which spoke on her behalf. If you did not like the column because you did not like her opinion based on her own private experience, then that's too bad. Freedom of speech, man. If you want to start a mature, intelligent, open dialogue then that's wonderful and you've honored your place as a member of this institution. If you just want to be angry, then take it outside. As she says, enough is enough with the low blows.

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