Make-A-Wish Charity Game Is Personal for Field Hockey’s Conklin

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2005 should have been an exciting year for the Conklin family. In addition to six-year old Maddy and her younger sister Frankie, the Conklin crew was awaiting the arrival of another daughter, who could join the family at any moment. However, this sense of eager expectation quickly soured. Less than a month after the arrival of newborn Kate, the family’s pediatrician delivered some unwelcoming news. Postnatal genetic tests showed that Kate had Cystic Fibrosis — an illness that causes a thick buildup of mucus in the lungs, clogging airways and trapping bacteria. The disease can cause lung damage and respiratory failure, potentially affecting the pancreas and damaging other organs. But Kate’s diagnosis was just the tip of the iceberg. C.F. is a hereditary condition, so the entire family was advised to undergo testing for the genetic disorder. The news that followed was detrimental: Maddy and Frankie also tested positive for C.F. While the disease presented the sisters with plenty of challenges growing up, Maddy, now a sophomore on the Cornell field hockey team, says the illness allowed her to forge relationships with others in her same situation and become involved with organizations like Make-A-Wish, Cystic Fibrosis Foundation and Cohen’s Children’s Hospital in Queens. So the field hockey team’s Make-A-Wish fundraising event this Sunday — which runs concurrently with its contest against Bucknell — will be personal for Conklin, who was a beneficiary of the foundation. “I am really excited to be a part of the wish granting process,” Conklin said, who once had her own wish fulfilled. “After having such an amazing experience with this foundation, it is extremely important to me to help allow other individuals in similar situations to have their wish come true.”

 

Growing up with C.F.

Life wasn’t easy for Conklin and her sisters growing up. Conklin said that she and Frankie, the family’s middle daughter, were constantly being treated for “asthma-like symptoms, frequent respiratory illnesses and difficulties [with] gaining and maintaining weight.” Once the sisters were diagnosed with C.F., they had to go take medication and undergo therapy multiple times a day, on top of multiple doctor appointments, hospital stays and IV treatments. Just trying to stay healthy caused them to miss out on many routine events. Nevertheless, Conklin made the best of her condition. “C.F. was part of my life that helped shape me, however, I didn’t let it define me,” she said. “I wasn’t going to let C.F. stop me from doing the things I enjoyed most.” Maddy came to this realization when she was playing AAU field hockey for the Strong Island Field Hockey club in high school with Frankie. While the two were down in Florida for the Disney Field Hockey Showcase, ESPN made a short video about the two sisters living with C.F., a video which eventually made its way to a young girl in Massachusetts who was also fighting the disease. “[The video] gave [the girl] and her parents hope that there is life outside of having C.F. Because of that video, we made a difference in that one family’s life,” Conklin said. “We became friends, [I] FaceTimed with her and offered encouragement when needed. I realized the impact I could have on others.”

Competing at Cornell

Playing the arduous position of midfielder at Cornell, Conklin runs on average six miles a game, she says. But if you ask head coach Donna Hornibrook, her on-field performance gives no indication of any respiratory issues. “I had no idea about her condition until her parents told me,” Hornibrook said, according to a Cornell Big Red Bio. “I had seen her play in high school and thought she was outstanding. There was nothing in her play that indicated that she had lung problems.” Conklin told Hornibrook about her condition while she was recruited, but it made no difference to the coach. “I didn’t have any reservations about Maddy,” Hornibrook said in the bio. “I thought even if she needed to come off the bench or play limited minutes, she was still going to be a really solid addition for us. And it turns out we were right.”

  Conklin now says that being a student-athlete has been the “best thing” for her in dealing with her C.F. “I am diligent about keeping fit all year round,” she said. “Daily exercise, good nutrition and healthy choices for my body are all vital for promoting good lung functioning.” While some bumps in the road have forced Conklin make adjustments, her active lifestyle makes dealing with the complications of C.F. more manageable. “There are times when I need to increase or tweak my medications, physiotherapy or need IV therapy, but still feel that being fit helps fight infections and bounce back from a C.F. related setback,” Conklin said. Conklin also emphasized that being a Division I athlete allows her to spread awareness about her disease. For example, she garnered moderate national attention after Boomer Esiason — a former NFL MVP and four-time Pro Bowler — tweeted about her story. Esiason now runs the Boomer Esiason Foundation, a charity that “raises money, awareness, and support for the C.F. community.”

No Limits! Another example of overcoming adversity. #cfhttps://t.co/z0Ns6IiO77

— Boomer Esiason (@7BOOMERESIASON) November 18, 2016

Paying Wishes Forward

When she was 11 years old, Conklin was granted a wish through the Make-A-Wish Foundation. With her wish, Conklin traveled to Hawaii, where she participated in a myriad of activities, including a luau, a helicopter ride, a swim with dolphins and a horseback ride. While the trip was one that Conklin will never forget, she said the experience also opened up various avenues for her to give back to future wish-recipients. “While my wish was an amazing experience and one that I will never forget, I am most grateful for the relationships I have formed within the Make-A-Wish family and the doors that it has opened for me,” she said.

Today, Conklin often meets with Make-A-Wish children and their families, speaks at events and participates in planning and fundraising efforts for the organization, such as the Polar Plunge and Walk for Wishes. She served as an intern for the foundation in her senior year of high school. Conklin is also an ambassador for Cohen’s Children's Hospital in New York, where she meets with children and speaks on behalf of the hospital to help raise awareness of the hospital and C.F. Conklin said she is “most proud of the impact [she’s had] on others,” and is “humbled” that the field hockey team has partnered with an organization that has done so much for her. “Being a part of Big Red field hockey has been an amazing experience,” she said. “My teammates and coaches are always supportive of me, the C.F. foundation and Make-A-Wish.”

Inspiring a Future

C.F. has had a large impact on Conklin’s life, so it’s no surprise that it has shaped her academic and intellectual interests as well. “Even since [I was] diagnosed, I have become interested in science,” she said. “It started with the questions, ‘What is Cystic Fibrosis?’ ‘Why does this happen?’ ‘Why me?’ Which then led to the more complex questions of science, and ever since then science has been one of my passions.” Conklin studies Biology and Society in the College of Agriculture and Life Sciences with a minor in business, and hopes to someday work in business or the administrative side of medicine. But until then, Conklin will continue her work to be a role model for children with life-threatening diseases. “As of now, I hope to continue ... showing [the children] that they should never let these hardships control them, and to continue pursuing their dreams,” Conklin said. “At the end of the day, if my story motivates, helps, or supports another child living with a life-threatening illness, it was well worth it.”

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